I posted this on Facebook last 09 Oct 2009 (I hope somebody cares!)

Miriam Quiambao - The Buzz, Oct 18, 2009

Sayang, di ko napanood.


http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/entertainment/10/18/09/miriam-quiambao-admits-verbal-abuse-during-marriage

Ganyan yung ine-explain ko sa nanay ko kaya di nya ako dapat pine-pressure mag-asawa. Kasi it's either beautiful or just a beautiful disaster (sige mag-explain pa hahaha!).

Mahirap maging maganda at mabait, minsan naaabuso. Sayang ang glamour dahil sa walang kwentang lalake. I know more than a couple of pretty ladies na hindi successful ang marriage. In my humble opinion, it boils down to finding happiness within yourself and not let anybody else fill in that "emptiness" na sinasabi nila. This is not necessarily related to Miriam's experience. This is just me, thinking out loud.

Pag physical attraction kasi ang basis ng love, hindi solid yun. Nabasa ko nga somewhere, let infatuation die and give birth to true love when it's time.

Pag hindi mo nararamdamang mahal ka ng partner mo, my advice is to let go. Masyado kang maganda para pababain mo ang self-esteem mo dahil sa kanya. Let him find his own happiness and just be happy for him even if it means that he'll be happy with someone else. Hindi ka din magiging fulfilled sa relationship nyo if it's not based on mutual love and respect.

May mga naglalagay ng
It's Complicated na relationship status. Look, it's not complicated. I repeat, it's not complicated! You just refuse to believe and accept the truth. Drill that to your head! Don't wallow in grief. Don't stay in that situation for so long. Stand up and move on.

The wrong people we meet point us to the direction in finding the right one. You are not suppose to stay there. If you hold on for too long with the wrong one, di mo agad mami-meet si the right one. So start taking charge of your life. Work on your own happiness as soon as possible. Kalimutan lahat ng what-ifs. Keep on moving forward and don't look back! Don't give anyone the power to hurt you. Girl power 'to!!!

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